who is u

wocinsolidarity:

And even a bonus slide for any remaining queries:

Mod note: 

Feel free to erase this bit here if you reblog, but I just wanted to explain why I made this. Very recently I got into an argument online with a white woman about a film that executed a white savior trope. I explained all the things I found problematic in the film and why I thought it was racist, and she told me that I was both nit-picking and white-shaming. I was also called a hypocrite and a racist (against white people).

I could see that this white woman was set in her willful ignorance, and that any further arguing would only make me more frustrated and her more self-righteous. So instead, I made this (lovely, if I can so myself) powerpoint rather than metaphorically bashing my head against a brick wall in continuing a conversation with her. 

May this help you in all your efforts, even if it couldn’t help me in mine. 

- Jennifer 

P.S. So I don’t know if someone has made a powerpoint for racism before (I’m sure someone has), but I haven’t seen one. Please link it to us if you have! 

 

z-rance:

rachelsweave:

YALL KEEP USING NICOLE FEELING BAD FOR AARYN AS AN EXCUSE TO HATE HER

LIKE YEAH WOW FUCK HER FOR HAVING SYMPATHY FOR A PERSON BEING EMBARRASSED ON NATIONAL TELEVISION

WHAT AN AWFUL PERSON 

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why should she feel sympathy for someone who has no compassion for black people, asian people and gay people? like do you hear yourself

and the fake bitch used a photo of CANDACE, a person who Aaryn REPEATEDLY VICTIMIZED WITH CONSTANT RACIST REMARKS, as a reaction os support of a girl who supports a racist.

What are the signs of emotional abuse?
Anonymous

mental-health-advice:

Abusive Expectations - Makes impossible demands, requires constant attention, and constantly criticizes.

Aggressing - Name calling, accusing, blames, threatens or gives orders, and often disguised as a judgmental “I know best” or “helping” attitude.

Constant Chaos - Deliberately starts arguments with you or others. May treat you well in front of others, but changes when you’re alone.

Rejecting - Refusing to acknowledge a person’s value, worth or presence. Communicating that he or she is useless or inferior or devaluing his or her thoughts and feelings.

Denying - Denies personal needs (especially when need is greatest) with the intent of causing hurt or as punishment. Uses silent treatment as punishment. Denies certain events happened or things that were said. Denies your perceptions, memory and sanity by disallowing any viewpoints other than their own which causes self-doubt, confusion, and loss of self-esteem.

Degrading - Any behavior that diminishes the identity, worth or dignity of the person such as: name-calling, mocking, teasing, insulting, ridiculing,

Emotional Blackmail - Uses guilt, compassion, or fear to get what he or she wants.

Terrorizing - Inducing intense fear or terror in a person, by threats or coercion.

Invalidation - Attempts to distort your perception of the world by refusing to acknowledge your personal reality. Says that your emotions and perceptions aren’t real and shouldn’t be trusted.

Isolating - Reducing or restricting freedom and normal contact with others.

Corrupting - Convincing a person to accept and engage in illegal activities.

Exploiting - Using a person for advantage or profit.

Minimizing - A less extreme form of denial that trivializes something you’ve expressed as unimportant or inconsequential.

Unpredictable Responses - Gets angry and upset in a situation that would normally not warrant a response. You walk around on eggshells to avoid any unnecessary drama over innocent comments you make. Drastic mood swings and outbursts.

Gaslighting -A form of psychological abuse involving the manipulation of situations or events that cause a person to be confused or to doubt his perceptions and memories. Gaslighting causes victims to constantly second-guess themselves and wonder if they’re losing their minds.

Love, Salem

vinebox:

"Toys R Us got me fucked up"

yoyo-blaze:

Keke Palmer gets a surprise from her number, number, number, NUMBER 1 crush, Michael Ealy. She loses her mind, and it’s hilarious! I would have done the same thing.

camiekahle:

I’ve never related to anything more

basedmanga:

tobelovedisagift:

Why the fuck is tommy killing his family?!

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serfborts:

Let’s take a minute to appreciate this acoustic performance of “Crazy In Love” where Chris Martin from Coldplay plays the piano and Bey does a sickening mashup with “Paradise”